Reconnecting with Your Authentic Self
“The greatest discovery in life is self-discovery. Until you find yourself you will always be someone else. Become yourself.” ~Myles Munroe
Amid the demands of work, relationships, and daily life, it’s easy to lose sight of our original aspirations. Often, we become so focused on merely surviving that we forget to consider the significance of our actions, feeling like robots going through the motions. Rediscovering yourself can realign your life with your passions, values, and desires. Yet, we often forget that this journey is possible at any age or stage of life. I Instead of striving to change your values, identity, or sense of self, focus on reconnecting with your authentic self—something we can lose touch with at times.
In your 20s, rediscovering your identity comes with greater flexibility and social acceptance, whether implied or explicit. Changing career paths, exploring new passions, or even relocating is often seen as a natural part of growth. This stage is crucial for shaping your identity beyond family influences and educational expectations. However, that acceptance shouldn’t fade as we age—life is a continuous journey of self-discovery. Embrace the trials and errors along the way, no matter your age, as you uncover what truly brings you joy.
For many of us, however, those 20s fade into the background as we navigate our 30s, 40s, and 50s. Life often settles into routine, with stable careers, families, and various responsibilities weighing on us. This can lead to feelings of being stuck and may even trigger a midlife crisis. It’s essential to pause and reflect on what you genuinely want. The goals you had in your 20s may no longer resonate in your 40s. This doesn’t mean you need to quit your job and move across the country; instead, take time to identify what matters most to you. Consider starting a side project, going back to school, picking up a new hobby, or dedicating more time to your mental health and relationships. Embrace any opportunity for realignment that comes your way.
As we transition into retirement, we enter a new phase of life often marked by more free time and a shift in daily routines. While this change can initially feel daunting, it offers a wonderful opportunity to explore a “second act”—a chance to rediscover passions or engage in new ventures that bring fulfillment. This could include exploring hobbies, starting a side project, or getting involved in your local community. Consider the legacy you wish to create—not just through personal achievements but through the impact you have on those around you. Leaving a meaningful legacy doesn’t require grand gestures like founding a nonprofit or inventing a life-saving device; sometimes, the most fulfilling contributions come from simple acts of kindness.
Use this time to support your local community, lend a helping hand to those in need, and foster a village where people genuinely care for one another. By offering help when you can and allowing yourself to lean on others when needed, you cultivate a network of support that enriches everyone’s lives. Embrace retirement with enthusiasm, knowing that through connection, service, and purpose, this stage of life holds endless possibilities for fulfillment and joy
Your legacy also includes your financial journey. As you realign your life with your current values, take time to reflect on the financial goals and strategies you want to pursue. This reflection is important at any stage—whether you’re a young professional, in the midst of a career change, or nearing retirement. As your values and objectives evolve over time, your financial approach should adapt to support them. After reconnecting with your authentic self, plan for your future with renewed clarity and purpose.
It’s never too late to get your financial matters in order, no matter what stage of life you’re in. Whether you’re dealing with debt, managing bills, increasing assets, or navigating changing incomes, there’s always time to make the necessary adjustments to support your desired lifestyle. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or uncertain about where to start, a financial advisor can help ease that burden. By providing expert guidance, a financial advisor can help simplify complex decisions, create a clear action plan, and ensure that your financial strategies are aligned with your evolving goals—freeing up your time and resources to focus on what truly matters.
Marilyn Suey
CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER ®
Certified Plan Fiduciary Advisor®
Accredited Investment Fiduciary®
Certified Plan Fiduciary Advisor®
marilyn.suey@diamondgroupwealthadvisors.com
Marilyn Suey is a Registered Representative with, and securities and Retirement Plan Consulting Program advisory services offered through LPL Financial, a registered investment advisor, member FINRA/SIPC. Other advisory services offered through Mariner Independent Advisor Network, LLC a Registered Investment Advisor. The Diamond Group Wealth Advisors and Mariner Independent Advisor Network, LLC are separate entities from LPL Financial.CA Insurance License #0E01981
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Marilyn is the Founder and CEO of The Diamond Group Wealth Advisors. She is a nationally recognized Financial Educator, Author, Speaker, and Wealth Manager, who you may have seen on NBC, ABC, CBS and FOX network affiliates and Yahoo News, Wall Street Journal’s Market Watch, Wall Street Select and others. Marilyn and her team at The Diamond Group Wealth Advisors have been showing business owners, healthcare professionals, and executives how to accumulate, preserve, and pass on their wealth for almost 20 years. Marilyn developed The Prosperity Blue Print , a five-step wealth planning process, that includes strategy for Wealth Accumulation, Wealth Preservation, and planning for your ideal retirement lifestyle. She founded the Savvy Women Community where she shares her wisdom and experience with like-minded women. She received an MBA from the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania and a degree in Applied Math and Economics from UC Berkeley. To schedule your complimentary Lifestyle Upgrade Assessment, call: (925) 219-0080 or email; marilyn.suey@diamondgroupwealthadvisors.com
